Why We Thirst For Acceptance

Lost In The Algorithms — Odyssey # 49

George Kalantzis
2 min readMar 30, 2024

Diving into the depths with Alan Watts on these endless road trips to work, I’ve been schooling myself in the art of life. It’s like peeling back the layers of this existence gig, questioning the norms we strap on like second skins. Our society has boxed us in, running on this hamster wheel, chasing the ghost of acceptance in a world that’s forever out of grasp.

Globetrotting and surviving the rollercoaster of life, I’ve seen it clear as day — we’re all just scrambling for a nod in our direction, driven by this gnawing fear of the unknown.

Every sunrise is a leap into the abyss of uncertainty.

Late nights, when the world’s asleep and it’s just me and the quiet, I think about how I’m shaping my little girl’s view of this world. How do I teach her to navigate the chaos without losing her spark? Weaving in the timeless dance of Dao and Stoicism, I’m plotting a course that’s less about the frantic search for digital thumbs-up and more about genuine, soul-level survival.

Watts nails it though…. our inner tug-of-war between seeking approval and embracing our raw, unfiltered selves is a wild goose chase. We’re the main act in our own circus, perpetually stuck with ourselves, no matter how hard we try to jump out of our skin.

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George Kalantzis

George is a professional storyteller, a dad to a sassy and adventurous eight year-old girl, and the author Of Nowhere To Go